Saturday, March 14, 2009

Trust

Trust is something hard to come by these days. Telling somebody something and expecting them to keep it inside is unlikely. Trusting your partner to be who they claim they are, straight up individual who wont lie or cheat. Coworkers blowing up your spot about an interview you went on or something you did.

Why is trust so hard to come by? Did people change so much over time? It seems like it is excepted in today's age and that its normal to be lied to. The more lies that go around and the more okay it gets the more and more we will see it happen. Like the economy today it is only going to get worse before it gets better.

Being divorced is not only expected these days but cool. Hell, I'm divorced and it doesn't faze anybody. Not that staying in bad marriage is a good thing but it seems like we run faster than fixing. Research shows us that today's generations expect immediate results and not that it is breaking news or anything but that is now the norm. When people are at a job that might have an issue the first thing is to look for another job. In a relationship that is getting rocky and you start looking for
the door or for someone on the side. Friends piss you off and you throw the friendship out.

I would be lying if I said I did it all right. I've thrown friendships out, looked for new jobs as soon as I got annoyed. I did not however screw my relationship because when your cheated on that I believe is a valid reason to throw it out. Does that mean I wont ruin a relationship when it gets ruff ... I have not done that and hope never to walk away as a result of some issues.

Society as a whole is a mess but that does make those honest ones that much greater and harder to find. I would think people would strive to be better but instead I see people working on being "hard" and the "I don't give a shit" attitude. Why I'm not sure but society has work on themselves including myself to reach higher levels and not lower street levels. Any who that is my lil rant for the day.

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