What is a Chemical Reaction

I was out with some friends of mine over the weekend and the topic of "Love" came up. So Romeo AKA Pedro claimed that true love doesn't exist. Not to run away with why but he basically said it was impossible and all love really is, is a chemical reaction in ones body. To say love doesn't cause some sort of a reaction in the body would be a lie but by saying it is just proves that love does exist. Do we call all feelings we have by the chemical reaction they produce inside us? No.

So now that we are on this topic what is love or better what is love to me and what makes my chemicals react? I know love because I have been in love and when I was there, the emotions and feelings I got were unexplainable because words would not do it justice. I felt this power inside me that made want more and I could not get enough of it. When it was over it the light inside me faded out and no I await for someone to reignite it.

Now Romeo said as well that if love in the romantic sense did exist people wouldn't cheat and that the love would last forever. I personally believe love does not mean forever since love doesn't come with a guarantee or an expiration date. Love can last forever or for just a few months it really depends on the two individuals. I generally believe that in most cases love blossoms over time and it continues to get stronger the whole love at first site is cute and all but generally not realistic. Why do I say that because you are judging a book by its cover just like when you see a new pair of shoes and they look amazing and they are a must have. See if you feel the same way about them after wearing them for a while. More times than not they are not the most amazing shoes ever because you already saw another pair that is a "must have".

I do not think that over time love will automatically get better either because love works hand in hand with the two individuals as well. Just because you have things in common and you enjoy eating at the same restaurants or whatever does not mean the love will grow stronger or last forever.

True love is like the perfect storm. You have to people that are perfect for each other, the world they live in become this solid universe of similarities and differences that mesh into a beautiful diamond that is priceless. Like cutting a rare diamond it must be handled with the utmost care and like a diamond it must be cut not to fast or to slow but at the right speed and precision. When the final piece is presented anyone looking will see what a beautiful piece it is and same goes with love. True love is something we all want and yearn for yet only so many get lucky to find it while others settle for less or just let it get away. Talking about past diamonds you had or plan on getting is just talk and the reality that is as good as the gamblers who talk to you at the Off Track spots telling you tails of what could have, should have or would have. Anyone can talk but only the few can actually have true love.